I saw this picture on a friend’s BBM DP, I found it funny, but being a guy, I wanted to know what you ladies think, or even guys.
Do you think you should fight for a man/lady ignoring his/her present relationship status, especially if he/she is not married, afterall relationship is different from marriage.
What do you feel about a guy/lady who will not just back down even after knowing that you are taken. Will you take that as love, is that a turn-on or a turn-off, (I know y’all enjoy the attention though).
Should we keep pushing even after knowing they are taken in the name of love?
I will like to hear your view via a comment, but I know very few people like to do that, so just vote YES/NO (Yes being that you agree, No being you disagree), or fill in other options, but a comment will be appreciated 😉
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Tee Abraham
I don’t even know what to say, but this is a controversial post. It’s one that good arguments should spring up from. At some point, I was gonna vote yes, then I thought about it and changed my mind to no and then I opted for other.
I can imagine a lady loving me (we’re in a relationship) and there’s another lady out there who wants my love too, when there’s any little issue in our relationship, I’ll bring up the fact that someone out there is longing for my love and she’s here misbehaving. It could make a dude proud mehn and possibly thoughts about a break-up would always cross his mind when there’s just one tiny disagreement which is wrong!
Then I also wonder why a lady would go after a man when all she can see is true love and a smooth sailing relationship? That’s a waste of precious time!
My final words would be from Eccl 10 vs 10: “Wisdom is profitable to direct!”
The violent taketh it by force.:D
U know I’m in a relationship nd u still disturbing…biko..Dat’s nt love o..pple lik dat will grow up to be home breakers..lol.
Wow can’t believe ds is coming up cos my present relationship is as a result of dat. my boyfriend Wldnt jst gv up nd as if he knew I was no longer feeling my last relationship. B4 I experienced it,my answer wld av bn a no bt honestly m enjoying him nd m enjoying us
As a girl all I can say is I need to be chased not the other way around if I struggle for a guy’s attention the probability is high that I have to keep strugglin to keep it.Not worth the stress in my opinion.There are many single willing fishes in the river.lool. Nyc post btw
Well to me, once someone is a relationship I think there should be no room for intruders because if you do it simply means you want someone else downfall. There are many more ladies and guys that are not taken so search amidst them.
Bt on a more serious note we should do unto others wat we want done to us.
I think he can deduce the kind of relatnship I’m in…if I’m enjoying it, he wud be better off leaving me alone if nt, we jst might hv a chance 2geda…as 4 me, I aint chasing nobody…hahahaha
Lool…so he should stick around if he notices that you arent enjoying your present relationship..hehehe
I’ll say if u are destined for someone nothing can seperate u…also,d heart knows who its truly love….so,luv aint a do or die tin(if I dnt get her,I won’t rest)its good to tell somone hw u feel abt them buh if dey dnt feel same,be glad d love grew in ur hrt nd let dem be..maybe with time,they will love u bck…
hmmm…wise words there Segun 🙂
Its a capital NO for me,why go after a guy that is in a relationship and loves someone else,that means I have to struggle to get his love and also struggle to retain it.Even if he has issues with his girl,the best is to leave him and not use that has an oppurtunity to get him.If he can leave his girlfriend because am on his neck and he couldn’t atleast try to make things right between them and just opt for the alternative,then he can also leave me(that he was forced to love..lol) for someone else.Remember,whatever you sow,you will reap….
Gbam!!! End of discussion 😀
There’s no yes or no answer using experience to answer the question.
Let Who you belong to guide you in making sound decisions.
Be who you are.
All things work together for good anyways.
I believe in the man doing the chasing.
Follow whatever you believe and let God be the judge.
Your words bear wisdom with them. Always good to read your contribution on lifegiva.com
It is here that I will espouse a theory that has been propounded on this blog for a long time; The Friendzone. Brethren first check yourself and if you are sure about going for that brother or sister, friendzone yourself..as in, be available, be around dont go breaking them up though, but let em know that you are interested. Keep telling him/her, dont stop talking it!!! =D
Hmmm…I couldn’t have agreed any more, thanks for contributing.
After everything, understand love is not selfish, think about it, if it was you, will you like it? Plus how are you sure he is yours, why do you love him, is it just to prove a point or it’s a genuine feeling, ask yourself oooo cos going after that person means you might be potentially breaking a family in pieces esp. If at the end you don’t now end up with the person + if the person can easily leave his current babe for you, how are you sure he cannot leave you too?