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The Questionnaire – HOW DO YOU CHOOSE FROM MANY SUITORS?

QUESTION

A LADY HAS THREE GUYS SHOWING INTEREST IN HER. HOW CAN SHE CHOOSE RIGHTLY?

A lady currently has 3 guys who have said they are interested in her and they love her. Please how can she choose rightly?

ANSWER

Well, to be straightforward and blunt, if a gun is pointed to her head to choose one, she definitely will make a choice. However without that extreme measure, the lady should be guided by the one that is Vision-driven and also sees her Vision together with his.  And he has to be saved.

The truth is, girls know after a while who they can spend the rest of their life with and who they can’t. Although, a great number of ladies indulge in self-deception which gets them to ignore the handwritings on the wall when making their choices about the life partners. So they marry a rich and he ends up being a Wife beater or they marry an influential guy who cares nothing for them.

So ladies, you have to be honest to yourself and to your purpose and vision and carefully choose the guy that aligns to your Identity and your Purpose. And of course to guide you in your choice.

Similar to this, read; LOVE TALK: CHOOSING WHO TO LOVE

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nkechi-chiazorNkechi Chiazor is a Women Distinctiveness Teacher. She is passionate about helping women find their true worth, value and distinctiveness. She is the founder of WONDIVA (Wonderfully Distinguished; Virtuous; Attractive) a network that helps women understand their distinctiveness and come to see themselves the way God sees them.

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Tolulope Oludapo is a young Christian who lends his voice through the media by sharing practical wisdom for everyday living in the most experiential and simplified fashion. This has fetched him the direct followership of over 30,000 users on his blog, lifegiva.com. A blog he founded. He loves to write on varying subjects that affect life, faith, relationship...everyday living.
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