Pastor Emmanuel Iren recently had a YouTube Live titled “Parole 101” where he shared better ways on how to woo a lady. For those who don’t understand, “Parole” is a Nigerian slang for the process of wooing a lady (in order to gain her love and possibly marry her).
He said Christian guys ought to recognise marriage as a vision, and that if any lady would be willing to go with them on that journey, they have to sell that vision to her. Hence, the need to learn how to woo a lady.
Without further ado, here is how to woo a lady according to Pastor Emmanuel Iren Live:
1. It matters how you carry yourself
Having a product is one thing, how you market it is another. Ladies appreciate authenticity, they like a guy who knows, says and does what he wants. It shows that such a guy can lead.
The approval seeking behaviour is a turn off. Ladies like guys are secure in themselves, and won’t be bothered by being rejected. In other words, stop trying to be liked.
2. Adam has a job, a life, and a choice, get one!
Before Adam had a wife, he had a job. He was created into an environment of supply, a garden, and was given the instruction to work.If you don’t have a prepared garden, Eve won’t come. Selah.Christian guys ought to recognise marriage as a vision, and that if any lady would be willing to go with them on that journey, they have to sell that vision to her. Click To Tweet
What are you doing with your life? Before Eve, get a life and improve yourself. You can start dressing well, looking good, smelling nice, building confidence, and pursuing purpose. Do this for you, and not because you want to get any lady.
3. Be upfront about what you want
When it comes to asking a lady out, be upfront about what you want. Speak your mind and give clues right from the beginning in order to intentionally dodge the friend zone. Still, it is important to note that even after all this, not everyone will still say yes to you, and that’s okay.
And these are some of the highlights and lessons learnt from Parole 101. You can watch it here.
Do you have other tips for wooing a lady or parole experiences to share, we’d love to read them in the comment section. Also, did you learn a thing or two from this post? What points stood out for you? Please share with us.
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