This was a piece of advice from a friend’s mum to her. “Marry the man that loves you, not the man you love.”
Here are her reasons; the man that truly loves you will stay with you all through thick and thin, but if you choose the man you love over the one that loves you, it will take more from you to make the marriage work.
Also, all men are prone to cheat, but a man that loves you in the heat of the temptation will remember you. Even if he falls, he’ll open up to you and make it up, but if it happens to the man you love, he will most likely not think of you, and when he finds who he loves, will eventually leave you.
What do think of this advice?
I know that best is if both partners love each other mutually and equally. But in the case where you are unsure of what your heart thinks, where you have more than one good man/woman on your plate, this advice might come in handy.
I’m waiting for our sincere, real and practicable opinion, probably with a bit of past experience on this.
Thank you for reading, I’ll be waiting to see your comment. 😉
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