“Why would God give me the capacity for sexual feelings as a single when I am not to do anything with it???” I heard this question for the umpteenth time some days ago.
One of the toughest places to be is, single, Nigerian, working class, and Christian. A spirit-filled, tongue talking Christian sister, yet the husband cannot find you. But left right centre your friends, colleagues, acquaintance are in relationships, getting engaged and getting married.
She had discouragement written all over her. Speaking in hushed tones like one sharing a long-hidden secret, she poured out her heart to me. “Ify, I’ll be 30 years old in a few months and I’m