The Best Place to Find Your Marriage Partner

View of a young smiling couple in leavesI bet most of us must have asked our parents and other couples who seem to be enjoying their marriage where they met their partners. Where are the good husband materials displayed? Where can you pick up the best ladies to wife? Please, don’t be quick to say the church. If you were reading this article 20/30 years ago, that might have been correct, but the “not so good guys” and “not so good girls” found out that the good ones were in the church. Guess what they did? They literally infiltrated that space that till date, you can’t tell who is real and who just the proverbial wolf in sheep’s clothing is.

So, where is the best place to find your partner?

Is there is a place that is guaranteed?

Funny enough, this is a question a friend asked me.

The answer to this question is pretty simple.

The love of your life, prince charming, knight in shining armour or Cinderella as the case may be can be anywhere, just anywhere.

Okay, not just anywhere- but I am sure you’ll get my drift as you read along.

Although I greatly rule out the possibility of meeting someone over the internet, the love of your life could be anywhere. One thing you can be sure of is that they are not where you won’t be. By that, I mean, take for instance, if you never or will never be or have a friend, a friend’s friend or anything to do at all in Alaska, then your husband or wife isn’t in Alaska. My point is, your partner isn’t where you won’t be, or better put, your partner is where you are or where you will be.

Your partner is where you are or where you will be. Click To Tweet

I know you probably don’t need to spend these amount of minutes to just read this in a blog post, but it’s funny how we look for stuffs where they have no business being. You simply ignore all the perfect suitors around you for a mystery man somewhere that in reality doesn’t exist.

The best place to meet your suitor is around you- school, church, work place, friends, friends of a friend, and as funny as it is today, social media (it is as real as place as any others, thanks to technology).

So I will conclude this by saying that it’s not about where, but what to lookout for. Instead of bothering about where the perfect partner is, be bothered about certifying you are on the lookout for the real thing, the true character and personality.

And of course, pray that you identify him or her when you finally meet him or her. And the God that knows exactly what you want will hook you up in the best time.

Here are posts about what to look out for [wp-svg-icons icon=”point-down” wrap=”i”] [wp-svg-icons icon=”point-down” wrap=”i”]

Traits you SHOULD Look for in a Spouse



Choosing a Life Partner: Must She be BEAUTIFUL?

Thank you for reading. It will be great to see your comment.

Tolulope Oludapo

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Tolulope Oludapo is a young Christian who lends his voice through the media by sharing practical wisdom for everyday living in the most experiential and simplified fashion. This has fetched him the direct followership of over 30,000 users on his blog, A blog he founded. He loves to write on varying subjects that affect life, faith, relationship...everyday living.
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